Amrita and Andrew are ”platonic life partners,” artistic co-conspirators, and parents to a good baby. In 2024: Season 2 will reflect on one year of parenting as friends, and *lots* more. We will turn the lens to re-imagining the ways in which people relate to one another in the modern world: whether in family, community, partnership, or romance. Season 1 documented our path from friends to family as we decided to become parents. All the juicy backstory you could ask for. ”Season 0” is the first 41 episodes that preceded this over the years: foundational and central, fun and ridiculous. Without these episodes -- exploring freelancing, and living life off the beaten path -- there is no ”us.” Faced with making an unconventional choice that has the potential to bring you joy? Don’t Think Twice!
Episodes
Monday Jun 19, 2023
Season 1, Part 9: Sex and Romance
Monday Jun 19, 2023
Monday Jun 19, 2023
We're nearing the end of our Baby Episodes! But we can't leave without confronting how sex and dating will work in Amrita and Andrew's new roles as friends raising a child together.
Host Marina Weiss does a little after-hours therapy and guides us in an open and vulnerable conversation about our ideal romantic partners, and how they might fit into our unconventional family. We all learn a lot.
Monday Jun 12, 2023
Season 1, Part 8: It’s Different for Boys
Monday Jun 12, 2023
Monday Jun 12, 2023
In this week's exploration of nontraditional family, we look at a male perspective on parenthood.
Andrew sits down with our friend JR Andre - an educator and school administrator who is on the pathway to parenthood along with his husband.
We talk gay fatherhood, navigating relationships with the women involved in the process, and the importance of queer community and queer legacies.
Monday Jun 05, 2023
Season 1, Part 7: It’s Different for Girls
Monday Jun 05, 2023
Monday Jun 05, 2023
On our journey to explore nontraditional family, we're taking a couple episodes to explore the gendered issues around the decision to have children (or not). This week, an episode very close to Amrita's heart.
Special guest Ciara Pressler is an accomplished author and entrepreneur, and also confidently child-free.
We talk cultural taboos, feminism, the wildly shallow dating pool, and the double-edged swords that affect moms and childfree women alike.
Next week: Andrew's turn!
Monday May 29, 2023
Season 1, Part 6: The Business (and Law) of babymaking
Monday May 29, 2023
Monday May 29, 2023
We've gotten a lot of questions about the legal aspects of our platonic coparenting situation, and there's plenty to discuss!
We get into the finer points of tax policy for self-employed parents -- plus, our experience with the fabulous Chosen Family Law Center, who are helping us iron out a co-parenting agreement for unpartnered parents. (Which tbh, all sorts of parents could probably benefit from).
Our host Marina Weiss gamely braves this jaunt into the practical realities of chosen family.
Monday May 22, 2023
Season 1, Part 5: Pregnancy feels and facts
Monday May 22, 2023
Monday May 22, 2023
Things are chugging along. Now that the baby's cooking, how has it been?
BFFs Amrita and Andrew steer through the pregnancy as friends, finding new ways to care for one another, and maintain boundaries.
We also have several notes about the raggedy-ass American health care system....especially as uninsured freelancers. Yikes.
Host Marina Weiss asks all the right questions and comments as we go.
Monday May 08, 2023
Season 1, Part 4: The (Most Accurate) Conception
Monday May 08, 2023
Monday May 08, 2023
All right people, time for this baby to get made (And we know you're curious, just admit it).
In this week's installment, best buds Amrita and Andrew answer pressing questions such as: Why now? How did we, you know....do it? What's the "new" old-fashioned way? Why is it all so UNscientific? Plus, the shockingly apropos timing of the actual moment of conception (!).
Host and clinical psychologist Marina Weiss steers us through it all.
[nb: we will discuss miscarriage in this episode. Nothing too gnarly, just be aware.]
Monday May 01, 2023
Season 1, Part 3: The Big Chill
Monday May 01, 2023
Monday May 01, 2023
Platonic life-partners Andrew and Amrita initially started their fertility journey by freezing embryos. In this episode, we take you through all the gritty details of cooking up frozen egg babies, as a nontraditional couple: from psychological fitness, to baton-twirling vaginal ultrasounds, to sperm embargoes...and the pornography that earned Andrew a personal apology from the clinic director.
Marina Weiss hosts this special run of episodes chronicling 2 friends making a nontraditional family together.
Monday Apr 24, 2023
Season 1, Part 2: The Decision to Parent
Monday Apr 24, 2023
Monday Apr 24, 2023
In this special run of episodes, hosted by Marina Weiss, platonic life-partners Amrita and Andrew explore the decision to make a baby together.
In this installment: how has a lifetime of unconventional choices – professionally, personally, creatively – led to the decision to make a family in an unconventional way? How does our identity as artists play into all of this?
Monday Apr 17, 2023
Season 1, Part 1: From Friends to Family
Monday Apr 17, 2023
Monday Apr 17, 2023
Amrita and Andrew are friends, business partners, creative collaborators, and now…they have a baby on the way.
In this podcast, we have always advised "Don't Think Twice!" when it comes to making off-the-beaten-path career & creative choices. In this special run of episodes, we will be exploring a different kind of unconventional choice: becoming platonic co-parents, and creating a "chosen family" together as friends.
Poet, clinical psychologist, and near and dear member of our inner circle Marina Weiss hosts these episodes. We begin by setting the scene and what it means for friends to become family.
Tuesday May 10, 2022
S0 EPISODE 41: Tell Me Sweet Little Lies
Tuesday May 10, 2022
Tuesday May 10, 2022
This month, your faithful freelancers talk falsehoods: Amrita's most egregious white lies; candles that secretly smell like farts; Andrew's explainer on why suburbs are a massive Ponzi scheme; and our conclusion that sex apps are the only truthful way to meet non-liars online.